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Rebecca Payne Psychology

Clinical Psychologist · California

Understand your patterns.
Change what comes next.

Therapy for capable adults who look fine from the outside and privately keep running into the same intense emotions, the same relationship endings, the same standards that never let up. I will not ask you to positive-think your way past patterns that took years to form. Warm, direct, collaborative work that pairs real insight with practical tools.

Sessions
Telehealth statewide
In Person
Santa Monica, CA
Availability
Accepting new clients
Dr. Rebecca Payne, PsyD, clinical psychologist in Santa Monica, California

Who I Work With

You might be closer to one of these stories than you think.

Mara

The relationship that ends the same way

The first three months are electric. Then a shorter reply, an evening they want to themselves, and you are back reading tone, going quiet, saying the sharpest true thing you know. By morning you can narrate the whole sequence — which has never once stopped it from happening next time. You want to know why it keeps ending in the same place.

Daniel

The composure that costs everything underneath

Everyone describes you as steady. You absorb other people's stress and answer every message within the hour. What nobody sees is the twenty minutes in the parked car before you can walk into your own house, or that the work you built your life around now produces nothing at all. You are not in crisis. That is precisely why this has been on the list for two years.

Priya

The feelings nobody around you seems to have

A tone in a meeting, a plan changed at short notice — and it lands enormous. Four hours later you are still recovering while everyone else has moved on. You have learned to keep the size of it hidden, because the last few times you did not, the response made it worse. You would like to find out what your emotions have actually been trying to tell you.

These are fictitious names and scenarios used only to illustrate real-life situations.

Starting

What happens in the first three sessions?

Nobody tells you this part before you book, so here it is. Select a step to see how a consultation turns into actual therapy.

Step 1

A useful first conversation

We talk briefly about what brings you here, what you have already tried, and what you want to be different. You can ask direct questions. I will be equally direct about whether my experience and approach fit what you need.

Start Here

What brings you here?

Select what is closest to what you are carrying, and I'll tell you how I think about it.

Choose whichever one is closest. Most people arrive with two or three of these tangled together.

Dr. Rebecca Payne, PsyD, clinical psychologist in Santa Monica, California

About

Hi, I'm Rebecca

I'm a licensed clinical psychologist specializing in borderline personality disorder, trauma, attachment and relationship patterns, and difficulties with emotional regulation. My approach is warm, direct, and collaborative, combining psychodynamic and relational therapy with practical CBT and DBT tools when helpful. I offer virtual therapy throughout California and in-person sessions in Santa Monica.

Specialties

What we work on together

Each of these has its own page, written properly, so you can see how I think before you ever contact me. No one should have to schedule a call just to find out whether a therapist has actually thought about their thing.

In A Client's Words

A note left after our work together

I feel truly blessed to have been introduced to Dr. Payne right after our home was incinerated in the January 2025 Palisades Fire. Losing everything in that tragedy left me and my wife carrying an immense weight of trauma, and her presence during that time made a profound difference.

Dr. Payne has a rare gift for listening with genuine compassion and offering insights that ease the burden of grief and anxiety. Even in simple conversations, she creates a sense of safety and understanding that helps you feel less alone in your struggles. Her warmth, kindness, and professional expertise shine through in every interaction.

I am deeply grateful for the support she provided during one of the most difficult chapters of my life. Anyone who has the opportunity to work with Dr. Payne will be in the hands of a truly caring and exceptional psychologist.

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Sessions

Telehealth or Santa Monica

Both are full therapy, and neither is the lesser option. Here is how people usually decide.

Anywhere in California

Telehealth

  • Available to anyone physically located in California at the time of session
  • Secure video, no travel and no waiting room
  • Easier to protect: no lobby, no parking lot, no chance of being recognized
  • Fits demanding or unpredictable schedules, including touring and production work
  • Works well for consistent weekly therapy over the long term
Book Telehealth Consultation

Neither option is the better one. Some people start with telehealth and move to the office; others do the reverse. We can decide on the consultation call and change it whenever it stops fitting.

Work With Me

The first step is a conversation

Dr. Rebecca Payne, PsyD · Licensed in California · Accepting new clients

Free Consultation

Start with a conversation, not a commitment.

The first step is a free consultation call. We talk about what brings you here, what you have already tried, and whether working together makes sense. If I am not the right fit, I will say so and point you somewhere better.

  • · You request a time on the form, and I confirm by email
  • · Telehealth anywhere in California, or in person in Santa Monica
  • · Private pay, with superbills for out-of-network reimbursement
  • · 48 hours' notice for changes or cancellations

Request a Consultation

Tell me how to reach you and when you are free

Keep this to scheduling — a name, a way to reach you, and when you tend to be free. What brings you in is for the call itself, where I can actually respond to it.

Prefer the full scheduler? Open the original booking form.